My current lighting setup is scalable to a certain point. Beyond that point for a larger venue or event, I would depend on the venue or production company to provide the main lighting.
I currently have about 8 LED Par lights for washes, mood lighting, etc.
I can mount these on stands at any level, or set them up on the floor.
I also have a professional 3-in-1 with lasers, LED washes and LED moving patterns.
I typically mount this high above the dance floor to give a real disco/dance show feel.
I have a smaller, more portable 4-in-1 with bit less power, but similar fx
I typically use this one for smaller gigs, or as a supplement to the larger one
I also have pro LED bar lighting for front-of-stage if needed, typically placed on the floor, angled facing up to wash/color the performer(s).
All of these are DMX controllable, but for the most part, I’ll link them together as needed (like the Pars) and then set them on an auto-program. Typically slow color crossfades for the pars, something more lively for the rest of the lights, sometimes with lasers off if not appropriate. And I ALWAYS leave any strobes off. Those are just annoying over time, and can also be a hazard for epileptics.
Speaking of lasers, I do have a fog machine, but when I use it, its output is typically EXTREMELY low, just enough to give some atmosphere for the lighting.
Finally, I also have miscellaneous lighting such as programable LED strips, a couple of colorful LED glow bars to light the DJ/Synth booth and a few other accessories.
All this stuff together ran me maybe around $1,000 total, but it’s worth it, especially for paid gigs when I can charge a bit more to provide both PA and lighting. It’s enough for small to large-ish private parties and even to light up or supplement small to medium venues with a real party atmosphere. Being able to provide more of a “complete” party feel experience is something that gets around through word of mouth leading to more performances.