It occurred to me to mention
So we all like to buy gear. But some of us are hamstrung by a critical other.
So what is your most risky as in buy it and you are dead purchase and how did you get round it ?
Share your mr smooth technique
It occurred to me to mention
So we all like to buy gear. But some of us are hamstrung by a critical other.
So what is your most risky as in buy it and you are dead purchase and how did you get round it ?
Share your mr smooth technique
If youâre talking about partners, mine is very much ok with me buying gear as long as I have enough money for mortgage, food, savings etc. She spends about the same on furniture and the garden (granted that stuff is for both of us to enjoy ). She even said to me the other day, âOne day youâll get into eurorack. You might as well, you keep talking about itâ lol
Sounds like sheâs planning an affair!
My wife doesnât mind what I buy, nor do I mind what she buys, so long as we do not use credit and all the bills are paid no problem.
Am I the only bloke whoâs a bit offended by the premise of this topic?
My other half encourages gear purchases far more than i even think about buying gear.
Why are you offended by a topic of a partner criticising your spending?
Err - what is offensive here?
Yeah I was reluctant to post in here tbh, seems like such a cliche âoh the olâ ball and chainâ etc like our partners are some kind of burden. Iâm happy to be in a relationship of mutual respect; we both have expensive hobbies so can understand each other spending lots of money on them⌠also she encouraged me to reduce my hours at work so I can concentrate a bit more on my youtube channel
Youâre tone is a bit vulgar, twice uâve made suggestive replies, u edited the last one but it involved swinging. Secondly this idea that wives are some ball and chain is a bit last century donât u think?
Separate finances. Also, my gear purchases are tax deductible due to making music for a living. Thatâs how I justify it to me.
Yeah to be fair those replies about affairs/swinging were a bit lame
You are assuming this only refers to female partners?
I was only having a laugh Sorry for the offense
No, but I donât think I have to name every possible congenital relationship type to make my point
Are you assuming this only refers to biological partners?
My 'takt has been practically begging for me to bring a 'tone into the relationship. Shocking, I know.
As a gay man with a male partner I am offended by your assumption.
No I am not gay but do you get my point?
I donât know what that means, but u sound like a bit of a perv, Iâm out of here
I donât know how to answer thatđł